tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post6588160755972284992..comments2023-08-16T21:10:06.676+10:00Comments on Aim to Change: Unhappy Valentine's DayAimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-47156047195226158762011-02-13T17:34:42.888+11:002011-02-13T17:34:42.888+11:00Thank you gorgeous ladies - very much appreciate y...Thank you gorgeous ladies - very much appreciate your words of wisdom! xxx <br /><br />:)Aimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-40856642105512246662011-02-13T16:04:35.404+11:002011-02-13T16:04:35.404+11:00Thanks for sharing this with us, Amy.
Your loneli...Thanks for sharing this with us, Amy.<br /><br />Your loneliness is natural and heartfelt and all I can do is hope that you know, deep down, that you will find happiness in the end. It might be out there where you least expect to find it.<br /><br />When I got back home after living for two years in the UK, I was 14kg overweight, broke, single and totally unsure what to do with my life. So I got fit, moved into a share house, went back to uni and enjoyed my friends. It was at that time that I met my husband who told me years later that he was attracted to the girl who was having fun, looking after her health and being a good friend.<br /><br />Funny, because it was the only time in my life up to that point where I didn't have my heart and eyes out for 'a guy, any guy' to take an interest in me.<br /><br />For all you know, there's already someone nearby, perhaps shy, perhaps trying to find the right time and place. Keep smiling and keep on doing what you're doing - he'll arrive but in his own good time.Kath Locketthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09677312773827236567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-7496211571004943582011-02-13T14:59:03.709+11:002011-02-13T14:59:03.709+11:00hey gorgeous girl....firstly yes i agree wholehear...hey gorgeous girl....firstly yes i agree wholeheartedly that valentines day can be a very 'sad'day for alot of people...not just single people but ones going through divorce...or even the loss of others through death.....before i met my husband i was engaged to a guy who i had been with for 11 years and valentines day was soo important to me ....sadly though the day before valentines day i caught him in bed with my best friend... that valentines day was the saddest of saddest days ever for me...and one i probably will never ever forget....i promised myself never ever again would i celebrate valentines day .... and i didnt ...however i would still see it as a day of love ... but a day to love myself...first and formost... 3 years later i met my gorgeous hubby... and he proposed to me on valentines day...because my heart was "opeN" and i loved ME.... treat tomorrow Amy as the day you are to LOVE YOU....i beleive in life everything happens for a reason...so at the moment you are discovering who YOU ARE... AND everything else will folllow as you go ...hugs to you beautiful girl xxxxRunningFreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017275531311982325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-9725569142076128252011-02-13T11:36:04.586+11:002011-02-13T11:36:04.586+11:00Awww Deb, thank you lovely!!! Yes, the 'realit...Awww Deb, thank you lovely!!! Yes, the 'reality' side of my brain agrees wholeheartedly with all that - I don't believe in wasting my energy on just anyone... it's just the emotional side that gets all huffy and causes the dramas!!! (hence, yesterday!).<br /><br />BUT today's a new day - and the world won't fall apart tomorrow... keep on keeping on!<br /><br />Hahahaha... the thought of an anti-Valentine's zumba class is hilarious!!! I'll have that thought running through my head tomorrow I think - I'll throw a few hip-thrusts and 'wiggle wiggles' around the loungeroom, just to spite Cupid!!! ;)<br /><br />xxxAimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-84754230553944955172011-02-13T11:24:36.032+11:002011-02-13T11:24:36.032+11:00Ah sweetie, the more you know yourself, the more y...Ah sweetie, the more you know yourself, the more you'll realise just how much you have to offer. And it's going to have to be a pretty damn special man to be man enough for you! Hang in there honey. Turn the damn tv off when those silly ad's come on - it's all a commercial, money making venture anyway (cynical maybe, but true!). The man you end up with will make it Valentines day everyday & the 'holiday' will no longer matter.<br /><br />Btw,at 41, same issues.. I'm still single and would love to be in a fab r/ship. But it's amazing what makes you think. I had brekkie with my ex-fiance a couple of weeks ago (he's been married now for 10 years) and commented on how he doesn't understand why I haven't been 'snapped' up & how sad it is! Why would it be sad? I'd rather my life to his any day + why waste time on men you know are not worth it? Until you meet someone who makes your heart sing, don't waste your energy... the one you end up with is probably wondering where you are too!<br /><br />Maybe we should have an anti-valentines zumba class this week? Or simply turn it inwards and have a personal valentines, just for ourselves & celebrate who we are as strong, vibrant, intelligent, sexy women with it all!<br /><br />Deb (Zumba)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-89083478725751328512011-02-12T21:30:37.301+11:002011-02-12T21:30:37.301+11:00Amy is your email still the same (tpg?)Amy is your email still the same (tpg?)Karen Beckmannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-43614180833634791002011-02-12T19:55:21.061+11:002011-02-12T19:55:21.061+11:00Awww lovely, you're gonna make me tear up agai...Awww lovely, you're gonna make me tear up again!!! ... thank you, so so much!!! I'm so humbled by everyone's support and belief on this one - particularly when I'm struggling to find it in this topic - I've had the most beautiful replies and emails since I posted this, so I know I'm not alone... SO grateful for you guys too!! <br /><br />xx :)Aimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-53860290255692082632011-02-12T19:52:35.761+11:002011-02-12T19:52:35.761+11:00Arghhh just tried to post a huge comment and it wo...Arghhh just tried to post a huge comment and it wouldnt let me post it and went into cyberspace :-(<br /><br />I was saying that I pulled up the comment box to post a comment after reading your heartwarming post and Kelly has said exactly what I wanted to express. I know you dont know me (I am you email fan stalker ... lol) but there is a man out there for you Amy and he is going to be the most special man that ever set foot on this earth because you have the most beautifulest (is that a word?) soul in the world. He will appear when you least expect it. I dont have to know you in person to know you are one of the most gorgeous people that I have ever had the pleasure of "meeting" and I know you really touch alot of lives including your future partner .. he is out there .. you are just awesome xoxKaren Beckmannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-82394503910529231152011-02-12T19:29:02.715+11:002011-02-12T19:29:02.715+11:00Kell... love, love! xxx
As a follow up - since...Kell... love, love! xxx <br /><br />As a follow up - since posting - I've knocked out an hour on the cross trainer for a 1600cals burn. I refuse to give in to the emotions - no fridge for comfort - just sweat all the way!!Aimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-71573697079313324492011-02-12T18:57:31.783+11:002011-02-12T18:57:31.783+11:00It sure is going to be one incredibly amazingly fa...It sure is going to be one incredibly amazingly fabulous guy who gets to be with you when the time comes, Amy... because it's going to take someone very special to live up to a beautiful, intelligent, generous and loving woman like you. You will find him, and he will be one of the luckiest men in the world. xxxKelly Bradleynoreply@blogger.com