tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post2198113242195037136..comments2023-08-16T21:10:06.676+10:00Comments on Aim to Change: The Loneliness FactorAimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-76331501187550076212011-01-25T13:50:17.521+11:002011-01-25T13:50:17.521+11:00G'day Gorgeous!
Kath is absolutely right on al...G'day Gorgeous!<br />Kath is absolutely right on all fronts. <br />A friend of ours married a girl who is well over the 100kg mark and she is amazing. She's actually part of a Theatre group. Not only does she direct, she acts too! Like you, she's pretty, intelligent and still a little shy. She caught our friends eye because she was a table-top Gamer too. They acted out their parts and next thing cupid started shooting! LOL<br />She made him wait for 3 yrs before they married...and when I say 'wait' I mean it!<br />Can you see where I'm going? In what ever she does, she sets the rules and makes sure that she's responsible for her own happiness. I see you doing this. <br />Friends; Like Kath says 'there's a few people in the wings who'd love for you to make the first move'. NIKE!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-5665877311829939852011-01-25T08:49:19.015+11:002011-01-25T08:49:19.015+11:00..... and don't think loneliness is just suffe........ and don't think loneliness is just suffered by those on their own. I've struggled with depression in recent years and tend to 'hide away' when things get hard and haven't been the best of friends to those that I have/had. It is tough and something that we'll all have to work on until our last breath. Then again, anything worth working hard at is worth it.<br /><br />You're an inspiration and you may just find that there's a few people in the wings who'd love for you to make the first move. I used to assume that no-one would be interested in me but have gradually discovered that they're often more shy than I am. You'll be fine, I just know it.Kath Locketthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09677312773827236567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-54045607978378301432011-01-24T22:30:38.998+11:002011-01-24T22:30:38.998+11:00Thank you SO MUCH ladies for the support and gorge...Thank you SO MUCH ladies for the support and gorgeousness that is YOU! <br /><br />I've calmed down now - I'm a very lucky girl - your messages and a phone call later that helped clear the head and give me some perspective back! Always humbly grateful for those who take the time to help - in any form!<br /><br />Makes me feel not so alone after all, and tomorrow's a new day! <br /><br />Thank you again! xxxxxxxx :)Aimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01870034287723974796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-72342180449227306112011-01-24T21:15:58.229+11:002011-01-24T21:15:58.229+11:00I struggle with it too gorgeous girl. Similar situ...I struggle with it too gorgeous girl. Similar situation- live alone, isolated myself for far too long (though due to depression) and now everyone close to me is off having babies. The solution? Still working on it, but you will find peace and happiness, because your spirit is too strong to be hidden for long. xxxwhite nectarinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-88864362217650021222011-01-24T20:33:28.929+11:002011-01-24T20:33:28.929+11:00Couldn't agree more with Pandora!
I lost a fr...Couldn't agree more with Pandora!<br /><br />I lost a friendship during 2010...okay a few....and it was hard and extremely heartbreaking....but WOW the friends I have now! It literally was one door shut and another door opened and suddenly all sorts of people were coming out of the woodwork!<br /><br />So yes, just believe! <br /><br />xxxxxPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04449811182063168347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8206822992661481335.post-30680571940534212972011-01-24T20:04:50.495+11:002011-01-24T20:04:50.495+11:00Oh, Aim - I so get you - I so get what you're ...Oh, Aim - I so get you - I so get what you're saying.<br /><br />However, and I'm saying this because I know just how beautiful, smart, resiliant and courageous you are - one door shuts, another opens. I know how hard it is when a good friend moves away (or in my case, breaks the friendship)<br /><br />Sorry your friend is moving away - but you know, if you believe - more friends will come your way. Not saying its not hard or hurtful - but by putting yourself out there a little more - saying yes to every opportunity you get to meet people - maybe even expanding your business to get to more clients sites - more friends will come.<br /><br />Like your exercise habit that you never had a few years ago, being open to friendship is a skill that can be learned.<br /><br />Hugs mate. But you can do this. You've got the courage of ten people, the smile of an angel and a brilliant attitude.<br /><br />Time will bring more friends - be open to it and believe.Pandora Behrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17582255671962095503noreply@blogger.com